One Dozen Top Dating And Seduction Resources For Men On The Net
Posted on May 14, 2008
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Recently I did a video featuring all the cool resources on the Internet I could find for men when it comes to dating and seduction.
For fun, I’ve decided to list the twelve best (outside of the wide world of X & Y Communications, naturally…right?). I couldn’t come up with a clear winner so I’ve listed them in reverse alphabetical order:
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Joseph Matthew’s wildly popular portal for all things Seduction Community is often controversial, but always the source of an interesting read. With as much traffic his site gets, you’re always guaranteed something fresh and provocative. It’s the “gloves off” approach, all the way, which here in Texas is never a bad thing.
BTW, I’m still trying to figure out how I get traffic from TSL every other minute even though I can’t find any of my links there anywhere. I’ve been meaning to give Thundy a call and ask him about that.
OK, granted. There are some BITTER dudes on Allen’s forums. But that’s one popular message board nonetheless. What truly sets So Suave apart, however, is the completely novel way that articles are posted on the front page. Brief, focused material gets the nod, and that nod is often given to people who are normal, every day guys who contributed their coolest bits of advice.
And once your material makes that front page, it’s highlighted for literally weeks. Allen chooses the best of the best, and adds only one or two articles to the rotation every week.
This is an exceptionally well thought out site that is pleasing not only to the eye but to the intellect. Donovan somehow manages to incorporate a literally staggering amount of high-quality content while keeping a clean interface. The quantity and the quality of interaction on this site is unparalleled. Definitely a must-read.
What the guys at Sargenation have done is set up a blog-aggregation site that essentially acts as a clearinghouse for every major blog on dating and seduction out there. Visitors can log in and vote their favorites to the top of the list, while partaking of tons of additional content. Very user-friendly and well stocked on a regular basis with high-quality reads.
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Understanding Women: Does The Car You Drive Matter? [Part Two][Video]
Posted on May 12, 2008
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Now it’s time for the second part of that two-part video blog series on “The Car You Drive”.
Last time we talked about your car’s condition and upkeep.
In this segment, you’ll get the lowdown on what the style of car you drive says about you. And what’s the deal–Are there really “girl cars” and “guy cars”?
Watch and discover…and laugh too, if you’re in a good mood:
I sincerely hope these two vids have been of benefit to you. Actaully, if they’ve even been a tiny shred of value to you, please bookmark this on Del.icio.us or Digg it, using the convenient icons below.
And for something extra-Diggable, check back in a couple of days. I’m going to list my top ten cars for people with a successful dating life.
After that, you’ll be getting a load of my top ten dating/seduction resource sites on the Internet. Prepare for something completely different there, no doubt.
Be Good,
Scot
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You Can Take Her Bra Off With One Hand, But You’ll Need BOTH For This
Posted on May 12, 2008
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Maybe you remember this post about how to take a woman’s bra off with one hand.
Well, apparently women have the exact opposite problem.
Enjoy this video:
Somehow, the appearance of “feo” in the URL’s character string is ironic, especially if you’re a Spanish speaker.
Anyway, for the record I have a hard time believing this is a real issue. But the video is clearly intended for a female audience nonetheless.
OK, no more messing around. Part Two of “The Car You Drive” is coming up next…
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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Finally Finished: Deserve What You Want…The Audiobook
Posted on May 11, 2008
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At long last, the audiobook version of Deserve What You Want is here.
Someone said, “Yeah well, it’s about time.” And I heard you.
Well, I have to tell you, it’s a MASSIVE job to pull off an audiobook. I totally underestimated the task at hand. If you’ve ever tried to talk for five hours without tripping over a single word, let alone missing the required inflection to get the exact point across, then you’ve pretty much got the mental picture.
I started seeing things on the screen that weren’t there after a while. And then came the realization that the human voice can only go so long with out a break, and then it’s…um…so long.
But you don’t have to concern yourself with any of that.
I’ve got your back this time, and the finished product is free of gaffes yet just “human” enough to be charming. I’m sure you wouldn’t have it any other way, right?
What the deal is here, is that I’ve gone ahead and rolled the audiobook version into the same download areas that feature the PDF (i.e. “written e-book”) version. So if you already own Deserve What You Want, guess what…head to the Member’s Area page and you’ll soon find out you now own the audiobook version as well.
See, I told you I had your back.
All the rest of y’all can getchasum too. If you are all about putting the past behind, discovering what you want from MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex), deserving what you want and then making it happen, then this book is all about you.
The men’s version is here:
http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/men
The women’s version is here:
http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/women
OK, just to be clear, NO…I only read the book once, and I used the “co-ed” version of the book for that. That page actually still exists, so if you want the “numbers to match”, go here. But if you get the men’s or women’s version, do know that the audiobook will differ slightly.
Next time I’ll really post part two of “The Car You Drive”. I’m just a bit excited about having finally completed this project at last…
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. Call your mother today. And if you are dating a single mom, do something cool for her.
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Attracting Women: The Car You Drive [Part One][Video]
Posted on May 8, 2008
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Here’s the first of a two-part video blog series on “The Car You Drive”.
Lots of guys think that the hottest women only want a guy with a nice car. Usually, and predictably, the guys who believe that are the ones who don’t have a nice car.
Is there any truth to all of this, or is it just another in a long line of self-limiting beliefs?
Get ready to find out…
OK, let’s hear it from you guys out there with nice cars and with not-so-nice cars. What’s the deal from your perspective?
And ladies, don’t be shy either, okay? Do women only desire men with nice cars?
Keep it locked in right here for Part Two in a couple of days.
Be Good,
Scot
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How To Date Taller Women
Posted on May 4, 2008
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I’ve been getting numerous requests for some info on this topic lately.
And I’ll tell you, what was supposed to have been a blog post grew into a full-scale Special Report. There has not been nearly enough written on this subject, so I did it up right. Pickup, seduction, relationship management. It’s all in there, fellas.
Since writing it all down I’ve polished up the finished product and made it available to you for FREE right here.
By the way, even if you’re 6′2 and interested in dating WNBA centers, this is for you.
Enjoy.
Next time, more VIDEO…
Be Good,
Scot
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Kino That Works, And The Women Who Love You For Getting It Right
Posted on April 28, 2008
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Don’t fall off your chair when I tell you what I’m about to say. But you might indeed want to sit down for this nonetheless.
Here it is. I’m going to be teaching more about “kino” from now on.
In the past I’ve given the concept a hard time in general. But going forward I’m going to be more open minded about the term.
Now listen up though. It’s not like I’ve ever been against touching women. In fact, I highly recommend doing it as much as possible, given the fair opportunity to indulge oneself is there for you.
It’s just that when it comes right down to it, what has always struck me as wrongheaded was the concept of slapping a scientific, NLP-inspired moniker on the whole phenomenon and then packaging it in a tightly-wrapped package with specific “deployment” instructions on how to “escalate” it or whatever.
That’s why I haven’t pushed the concept, at least as generally described within the Seduction Community.
Knowing that women respond powerfully to a man who is not sexually pushy, putting potential physical contact with any particular woman on a time schedule–complete with paint-by-numbers-inspired action steps–comes off as bass-ackwards.
Dudes. If you’re in need of improvement in terms of the number of women you’re getting to paw up these days, the very last thing you need is to over-analyze the minutiae of the scenario (some more).
Disagree if you’d like (the comment space below is calling your name). Go ahead and tell me that guys who are just starting out need a framework to begin with. Tell me that you’ve got to start with “baby steps”.
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X & Y On The Fly #37 — Dating Differences When You’re Younger Vs. Older
Posted on April 26, 2008
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Let’s face it. This podcast truly has something for everyone.
In it Emily and I pick apart the advantages of dating when you are younger and the how that all stacks up compared to what dating is like for people in their thirties, forties and beyond.
Somewhere in between we cover the major dilemma often faced by those who are recent college graduates, and even get around to unveiling the hidden secret of single retirees who are dating again that all of us can learn from.
In other words, it’s “business as usual”: 100% original content for FREE that you are unlikely to hear elsewhere. Wait, I guess that’s not really “business as usual”, right? Well it is in the sense that you are probably completely used to getting something completely different out of X & Y On The Fly. We’ll keep it at that.
Subscribe and download here if you aren’t on iTunes. If you’ve got iTunes, just click the graphic above.
Remember to sign up for our newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and grab a hold of that SPECIAL BONUS episode called “The JuniorCast”, and leave us a comment the next time you drop by iTunes.
Back atcha again in a day or two with a real-life confession that I need to own up to…
Be Good,
Scot
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Episode 37--X & Y On The Fly--Dating Differnences When You're Younger Vs. Older: Play Now | Play in Popup | DownloadOnline Dating: “Fence Sitters” [Video]
Posted on April 18, 2008
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OK, this time around we’re going to talk about “Fence Sitters”.
Anyone who has ever been online and succeeded at getting some interaction going with MOTOS knows exactly what I’m talking about.
You start typing to someone via e-mail, and they try to put off taking things to the phone for as long as possible. And actually meeting? That could take months or even years based on some people’s timelines.
So what’s up with that? Watch the vid and find out:
Got any “fence sitter” stories or anything to add in general?
Be Good,
Scot
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The Chick Whisperer #20 — “First Date Success: Welcome To Your Reality”
Posted on April 17, 2008
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Dave M. is one busy guy these days. But that didn’t keep him from dropping in on the show for almost a full hour’s worth of non-stop game.
Let’s cut to the chase here. You’re probably used to hearing Dave M. talk about online dating. While it’s true that he and I could probably hash out online game for you all day long together (e.g. see VIRTUOSITY), I decided to think “out of the box” this time around.
Knowing that Dave is a master at online dating strategy, with the real-world track record to back it up, I started thinking perhaps it was time to unleash to the world exactly what this guy knows about how to make first dates go the way you want them to…every single time.
My logic dictated that the dude’s got to have tons of game here. After all, he’s had all the “practice runs” in the world to get it right, huh?
Rest assured neither he nor this session in general will disappoint you.
Expect almost a solid hour of non-stop game, kicking off with a voice mail from George at FSU asking about how to be consistently successful with women.
From there, it’s all about how to get your act together and maintain full mastery over first meetings with women. All I have to say is, “Bring a notepad to this party.” If you can soak up all the rapid-fire info here, you’re likely to cure yourself of first-date humiliation for a lifetime. And you and I both know that it’s all blue sky from there–as long as you can get this stuff right.
But no worries. We make it as easy as falling out of bed for you. No kidding.
By the way, listen closely at the end for a ridiculous scheme that Dave and I dreamed up right there on the spot…even while the audio recorde